atomic updates in particular is one of those things that sounds good to the C-suite, but falls apart extremely badly in the lower levels.

months-long delays on important updates due to some large project doing extremely bad things and pushing off a minor refactor endlessly has been the norm for me. but they're big so they wield a lot of political power so they get away with it every time.

or worse, as a library owner: spending INCREDIBLE amounts of time making sure a very minor change is safe, because you can't gradually roll it out to low-risk early adopter teams unless it's feature-flagged to hell and back. and if you missed something, roll back, write a report and say "oops" with far too many words in several meetings, spend a couple weeks triple checking feature flagging actually works like everyone thought (it does not, for at least 27 teams using your project), and then try again. while everyone else working on it is also stuck behind that queue.

monorepos suck imo. they're mostly company lock-in, because they teach most absolutely no skills they'd need in another job (or for contributing to open source - it's a brain drain on the ecosystem), and all external skill is useless because every monorepo is a fractal snowflake of garbage.