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maccardyesterday at 2:02 PM1 replyview on HN

If everywhere you go stinks, look under your own shoe.

If you move somewhere, and find the same circles why are you surprised that you’re still not happy?

> also, no women

Social groups aren’t just a place for unhappy people to meet a partner. I’d look inwards first.


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jwardenyesterday at 2:13 PM

Ouch! I don’t think that’s fair.

It sounds like his professional life or personal interests naturally being him in contact with a social circle that isn’t fulfilling socially. Doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with him.

I say, look outward! Intentionally get involved with other social circles.

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