Yep, build community - by organizing get-togethers for the most interesting people you know, not just yourself.
It’s work, it doesn’t come naturally - but you get the privilege of curating who’s there.
This is backwards. You have the privilege of curating who's not there, by not inviting them. The fascinating people you do invite aren't obligated to show up.
This is backwards. You have the privilege of curating who's not there, by not inviting them. The fascinating people you do invite aren't obligated to show up.