>There’s a massive disconnect between people with rules-based morality and people with outcome-based morality ... it’s important to understand how people actually think.
My most-sobering book read in 2025 was Tim Urban's What's Our Problem — it definitely helped me better understand my two lawyerbros — there is an inner gollum driving everybody, and we need to ascend towards higher thinking.
[•] <https://www.amazon.com/Whats-Our-Problem-Self-Help-Societies...>
Thanks for your perspective.