I think the argument is that they shouldn't be opt-out, but opt-in.
If I want to play a game and provide my feedback, the default should be that that doesn't happen unless I explicitly say it should.
Opt-out means that, by default, you're collecting metrics from my plays, until I find the means to opt-out.
If the game asks you when you first open it, does it matter if the question is to "opt out" or "opt in"?