Who's actually coding?
You're never really wrestling the computer. You're typically wrestling with the design choices and technological debt of decisions that were in hindsight bad ones. And it's always in hindsight, at the time those decision always seem smart.
Like with the rise of frameworks, and abstractions who is actually doing anything with actual computation?
Most of the time it's wasting time learning some bs framework or implementing some other poorly designed system that some engineer that no longer works at the company created. In fact the entire industry is basically just one poorly designed system with technological debt that grows increasingly burdensome year by year.
It's very rarely about actual programming or actual computation or even "engineering". But usually just one giant kludge pile.
Computers are one big kludge pile because they can do anything.