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tasukiyesterday at 3:57 PM3 repliesview on HN

How many times did you have terminal cancer?

My girlfriend died of cancer. She was 30 years old and we had a toddler. No matter how rational you start, terminal cancer diagnosis throws much rationality out the window.


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overfeedyesterday at 4:22 PM

> No matter how rational you start, terminal cancer diagnosis throws much rationality out the window.

Doctors who get cancer typically stay level-headed. I wish society talked about death and mortality more often and openly, most people are ill-equiped to face it square on, and yet its the one thing that is truly universal. Humanity needs sex-ed, but for dying.

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NoSaltyesterday at 3:59 PM

I agree 100%. If I received a terminal cancer diagnosis, I would be willing to do almost anything to live longer.

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kstrauseryesterday at 5:40 PM

I am truly sorry for your loss. That must’ve been a nightmare, and I can imagine someone exploring outside their usual lines in such a situation. I hope you and your child are well now.

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