No, I understood the point perfectly, I just think it's completely wrong.

It's always possible to find people. If someone is shooting down every idea for doing so, they may have issues with motivation, or being defeatist, or any number of things. Those need solving.

That doesn't mean finding perfection. It does mean actively doing something to find people you enjoy spending time with.

Life gets immensely happier when you spend time primarily with people you find fulfilling. You can absolutely make a conversation work with anyone, it's absolutely a skill, and it can be useful. But you will in your life have a certain amount of time and energy to interact with people. Spend it well.