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alistairSH01/16/20262 repliesview on HN

I wish I understood how people arrived at this state in the first place…

My parents are retired boomers who’ve lived in the same area for decades. This has afforded them a strong local fried network, despite being an ocean away from their homeland and extended families. Mom and her friends have a weekly gathering to chat and have tea/cake.

My wife and I likewise have a geoup of local friends. We get together quarterly or so for a group dinner. The wives usually organize that. Most of the guys are cat enthusiasts and/or cyclists so we see each many weekends.

Is this mostly a Millenial thing? Is there a whole generation that for whatever reason never found hobbies outside work?


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rkomorn01/16/2026

> Most of the guys are cat enthusiasts and/or cyclists so we see each many weekends.

Why not combine the two and take the cats cycling? A nice 30 meowle ride.

m4ck_01/16/2026

>Is this mostly a Millenial thing? Is there a whole generation that for whatever reason never found hobbies outside work?

Millennials were/are repeatedly economically fucked by boomers. Difficult to have hobbies or a social life when you're thrown on your ass by your greedy parents at the same time that the shitheels they elected ruined the economy (2008.) And I'll pre-empty any BS about money, money is required for everything, there is no such thing as free in the "land of the free".