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IgorPartolayesterday at 6:47 PM4 repliesview on HN

Because social anxiety, typically. “What if the person tells me to fuck off? What if they make a scene of it?” Especially if six years ago you are the person who was in your teenage years, chances are your social skills are not what they could be if you didn’t spend a year in lockdowns.

Conversely, if you are the kind of person able to come up to a stranger and ask them (politely and respectfully!) to change what they are doing, you likely the person with the social skill to do other things well too.


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connorgurneyyesterday at 6:49 PM

I follow that, and it's something I've struggled with in the past, but doesn't this sort of solution make them more likely to tell you to fuck off or to make a scene, rather than less?

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Aurornisyesterday at 7:05 PM

> Because social anxiety, typically. “What if the person tells me to fuck off? What if they make a scene of it?”

As opposed to building a tool to actively annoy them without politely asking them a question? This doesn't follow.

I doubt the tool was actually used.

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maximilianroosyesterday at 8:05 PM

What did you think "building social skills" meant? vibe coded apps?

Gotta start somewhere!

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fortran77yesterday at 7:33 PM

It's not social anxiety. It's fear of being shot.

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