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Ronsenshiyesterday at 1:07 PM1 replyview on HN

Interesting quote and certainly can apply to some people, but this behavior could also be considered as "acts of service" type of "love language". You can take any endearing and genuinely good behavior and make a toxic version out of it.


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inanutshellusyesterday at 3:24 PM

Helping people is 100% my love language.

My SIL queues up household tasks when I come over. "Hey I got this new thermostat, can you help me put it on?" kinda stuff that she could do herself but she knows that's what makes me feel fulfilled.

Point being: GP - calm down bud. ;-)