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y1n0yesterday at 5:51 PM2 repliesview on HN

His advice was specific to the husband - wife relationship. You’ll understand if you happen to get married or enter a long term relationship.


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bigstrat2003yesterday at 6:04 PM

Even there, though, there needs to be a balance. Sometimes my wife needs to vent to me about her problems, and I listen. But on the other hand, sometimes I need for her to not bring stuff up with me unless it's going to lead to a solution being implemented.

Aurornistoday at 12:29 AM

> You’ll understand if you happen to get married or enter a long term relationship.

What a remarkably condescending comment. I've been happily married for a long time.