It's kinda hard to handle MERGE failures gracefully. You generally expect the whole thing to succeed, and the syntax deceptively makes it seem like you can handle all the cases. But because of MVCC, you get these TOCTOU-style spurious constraint violations, yet there's no way to address them on a per-row basis, leading to the entire statement rolling back even for the rows that had no issues. If you are designing for concurrent OLTP workloads against the table, you should probably just avoid MERGE altogether. It's more useful for one-off manual fixups.