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lostloginyesterday at 3:05 PM6 repliesview on HN

Great example.

I work in a radiology practice and greet patients regularly.

99% of them say the are good/great etc.

It’s quite a striking response when they are limping, bandaged and on crutches.


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lokaryesterday at 3:53 PM

I sometimes answer “each day better then the next”, no one seems to notice.

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aendrukyesterday at 4:53 PM

I’ve always interpreted that question to mean emotionally. Yes, clearly I’m physically injured, but I still have a positive outlook.

When I do hear people respond in the negative it tends to be an opening up about stress.

0cf8612b2e1eyesterday at 3:53 PM

Is that just a reflex response though? I would expect people to be more deliberate in their interactions with medical professionals, but I can easily imagine hearing “How are you?” and my brain goes on autopilot.

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theSudayesterday at 4:49 PM

These days I do a 'eh' and shrug when someone asks a random 'how are you'?

anonzzziesyesterday at 5:44 PM

At the yearly colonoscopy I say "you can tell me after how I am".

unsupp0rtedyesterday at 3:34 PM

That’s not really an example of cultural lying- that’s an example of a fixed answer to a fixed question.

When somebody sneezes and you say “bless you” you’re not expressing your belief in god, and you’re not lying about one either.

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