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closewithyesterday at 9:29 PM1 replyview on HN

> Seriously though, it depends on the boss and the relationship you have with them.

Those are the power dynamics the GP is referring to.


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scott_wtoday at 7:29 AM

That wasn’t the intention of what I wrote. I was referring more to how people speak. It’s very common in British English to phrase a request as a question. The “relationship” I refer to isn’t “they’re your boss,” it’s “how do you and your boss communicate,” which is a different thing altogether.

That’s not to say power dynamics can’t exist, just that it’s not a thing you can apply to every conversation or situation.

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