It is deeply sad to me that "stop doing the thing that's hurting you" is met with such animosity. It's like heroin addicts telling us with a straight face that they refuse to stop.
>It's like heroin addicts telling us with a straight face that they refuse to stop.
That’s how addiction works
Maybe because it isn't particularly insightful or helpful. If you told a heroin addict this, would you expect them to be like "Oh MAN why didn't I think of that?"
not sure how old you are but have you ever try to say this to another human being? :)
I can quit whenever I want.