The same is true for regular databases though, isn't it?
Network adds latency and while it might be fine to run 500 queries with the database being on the same machine, adding 1-5ms per query makes it feel not okay.
Yes, that is why I said “local database (sqlite, or a traditional database over a unix socket on the same machine).”
This isn’t an sqlite-specific point, although sqlite often runs faster on a single machine because local sockets have some overhead.
> adding 1-5ms per query makes it feel not okay
Or going from ~1ms over a local wired network to ~10ms over a wireless network.
Had a customer performance complaint that boiled down to that, something that should take minutes took hours. Could not reproduce it internally.
After a lot of back abd forth I asked if the user machine was wired. Nope, wireless laptop. Got them to plug in like their colleagues and it was fast again.