(Shamless plug) I am also working on a similar FOSS, self-hosted project called Octelium https://github.com/octelium/octelium that you might find interesting if you are interested in this space. Octelium is, however, more of a generic/unified zero trust secure access platform that can operate as a remote access VPN, a ZTNA platform, API/AI/MCP gateway, a PaaS, an ngrok-alternative and a homelab infrastructure. It provides unified client-based as well as clientless access for both humans and workloads; dynamic identity-based secretless access (e.g. access to HTTP/gRPC/k8s upstreams without sharing API keys and access tokens, SSH without distributing passwords/private keys, postgres/MySQL databases without sharing passwords, etc.); dynamic L7-aware, identity-based access control ABAC via CEL and OPA as well as dynamic routing to upstreams via policy-as-code; native Passkey login/WebAuthn/TOTP MFA and support for OIDC/SAML IdPs, OpenTelemetry-native L7-aware visibility and auditing; clientless access via OAuth2 for workloads, WireGuard and QUIC tunneling with dual-stack and automatic private DNS, including in rootless mode; passwordless SSH'ing into containers and IoT without SSH servers; deploying and securing access to containers; declarative k8s-like management with horizontal scalability among other features. You can read more in the README if you're interested.
I've been keeping my eye on this one, it's very interesting.
Feel free to ignore this, but, what's your long term plan here? I see you have Enterprise plans (especially that allow different licenses). From what I can tell you're the only contributor, but, I assume that if you accepted contributions there'd be a CLA?
It took me too long to understand the difference between the two so I'll leave it here for others. Octelium operates on OSI Layer 7 and Tailscale operates on OSI Layer 3 and 4.