Eh?

I've written a non-distributed app that uses the Actor model and it's been very successful. It concurrently collects data from hundreds of REST endpoints, a typical run may make 500,000 REST requests, with 250 actors making simultaneous requests - I've tested with 1,000 but that tends to pound the REST servers into the ground. Any failed requests are re-queued. The requests aren't independent, request type C may depend on request types A & B being completed first as it requires data from them, so there's a declarative dependency graph mechanism that does the scheduling.

I started off using Akka but then the license changed and Pekko wasn't a thing yet, so I wrote my own single-process minimalist Actor framework - I only needed message queues, actor pools & supervision to handle scheduling and request failures, so that's all I wrote. It can easily handle 1m messages a second.

I have no idea why that's a "huge dead end", Actors are a model that's a very close fit to my use case, why on earth wouldn't I use it? That "nurseries" link is way TL;DR but it appears to be rubbishing other options in order to promote its particular model. The level of concurrency it provides seems to be very limited and some of it is just plain wrong - "in most concurrency systems, unhandled errors in background tasks are simply discarded". Err, no.

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