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boca_honeyyesterday at 7:38 PM6 repliesview on HN

I think this will be the kneejerk reaction of many, but then you'll have to face the consequences (de facto social isolation) and probably acquiesce. I had the same reaction when platforms started asking for my cellphone number... after some years I just started giving it to them. Now I don't even think about it.


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drzaiusx11today at 1:13 AM

Then you and I are not the same. If a platform asks for more than I'm willing to give it, it's time to leave. I've done this enough times that it's simply routine. If it means I suffer "defacto social isolation", whatever that is, so beit. I'm old and I've cultivated a group of close nit friends that live nearby most of the year, we'll manage just fine without discord.

lpcvoidyesterday at 7:46 PM

Then you decided to cave in and forego your privacy. Don't assume others will falter in the same fashion.

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jesse_dot_idyesterday at 7:45 PM

Your solution is subservience.

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kyborenyesterday at 8:15 PM

"I used to resist the boot, too. Then I was successfully conditioned by the environment that's been engineered around me. Now I just lick it subconsciously."

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johnnyanmacyesterday at 9:34 PM

>but then you'll have to face the consequences (de facto social isolation) and probably acquiesce.

Nah I'm used to being lonely. Leaving these platforms shows how few truly deep friendships you have.

You get used to it.

>I had the same reaction when platforms started asking for my cellphone number... after some years I just started giving it to them.

Even when I gave Facebook my number, that wasn't enough. I drew a line at some point. If everyone else wants to sacrifice privacy for the sake of pseudo-community, so be it.

sneakyesterday at 7:43 PM

I don’t sign up for those accounts, and I change my mobile number every 90 days.

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