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Forgeties79yesterday at 8:25 PM1 replyview on HN

>He said some mean words.

I guarantee you I can say some mean words that would upset you at some point. If you have to repeatedly deal with it, you'd likely leave the space we share or ask someone to make me leave. Words have power, we shouldn't pretend otherwise.


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jajuukayesterday at 8:41 PM

1. Being called an idiot or told my idea is dumb is not going to upset me. I guess I just have more emotional maturity than some OSS devs.

2. Why would I leave when I can just block you if you are harassing me?

3. Why are you inventing this hypothetical instead of just showing where that occurred?

4. No-one has said words don't have power. But being on the internet you should be able to recognize that you won't be friends with everyone. So you have to develop some basic emotional regulation for silly insults.

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