git doesn't care what order or from which branch you tag things in. If you need to hotfix a previous release you branch from that previous release's tag, make your bugfix and tag that bugfix then merge the whole thing back to main.

Presumably you are maintaining the ordering of these releases with your naming scheme for tags. For instance, using semver tags with your main release being v1.2.0 and your hotfix tag being v1.2.1, even while you've got features in flight for v1.3.0 or v1.4.0 or v2.0.0. Keeping track of the order of versions is part of semver's job.

Perhaps the distinction is that v1.2.0 and v1.2.1 are still separate releases. A bug fix is a different binary output (for compiled languages) and should have its own release tag. Even if you aren't using a compiled language but are using a lot of manual QA, different releases have different QA steps and tracking that with different version numbers is helpful there, too.

I'm not sure what you mean, what does "tag a bugfix", "tag the bugfix branch" or "ensure the bugfix ends up in the remote main branch as well as the release" even mean?

What are you trying to achieve here, or what's the crux? I'm not 100% sure, but it seems you're asking about how to apply a bug fix while QA is testing a tag, that you'd like to be a part of the eventual release, but not on top of other features? Or is about something else?

I think one misconception I can see already, is that tags don't belong to branches, they're on commits. If you have branch A and branch B, with branch B having one extra commit and that commit has tag A, once you merge branch B into branch A, the tag is still pointing to the same commit, and the tag has nothing to do with branches at all. Not that you'd use this workflow for QA/releases, but should at least get the point across.