SQL's terrible name is IBM's fault for multiple reasons. They were going to spell it Sequel but IBM's lawyers found another company had a trademark on Sequel and forced them to rename it to avoid lawsuits. Rather than pick a new, more original name they instead shrunk the acronym and then IBM's legal also made them tell people to spell it out instead of call it "sequel" to continue to avoid the other company's trademark. So IBM made sure the name and its pronunciation was always a mixed message from very early in the language's history. Thanks, IBM

(I've always pronounced PNG "ping". It's interesting that there is a split there, I'm not sure I would have expected a large one.)