The basic game theory of nukes is that either the world is escalating or deescalating, there's no other long term stable agreement.

Maybe people don't agree with ,,nuke them'', but OK with USA starting nuclear experiments again (which USA is preparing for right bow), which is a clear escalation.

Russia is waiting for USA to start the nuclear experiments to start them itself for defending itself to be able to do a counterstrike if needed.

After that there will be no stopping of Japan, South Korea and Iran rightfully wanting to have their own nukes.

You don't have to have the ,,nuke them'' thinking, even one step of escalation is enough to get to a disastrous position.