I'm a big fan of Postgres I've used it for a while and prefer it (partly due to experience) over other options. There is a lot that it _can_ do, especially when you take FDW, extensions, PLs, etc into the equation.
However, it's not an "always better" situation. These other specialized services excel in ways that Postgres cannot at the moment. _If_ you have a small system, _and_ the featureset you need overlaps with postgres' abilities, _and_ you don't expect to outgrow those two properties, then it could definitely make sense to use Postgres.
Let's imagine that adding all the pressure to the same system _didn't_ impact other parts of the same system (you wouldn't want a surge in kafka write traffic causing latency on your basic crud routes, right?).
Redis vs Postgres unlogged tables:
* Redis has a bunch of algorithms which are battle-tested and ease implementation of common patterns. Need a bloom filter, expiration with ttl that you don't need to write extra code for?
Kafka/SQS vs postgres queueing: * There are pros and cons here, but you definitely don't want your other Postgres work being impeded by high spikes in traffic. Distributed logs and dedicated message queues are built to handle elastic scalability in ways that are difficult to achieve with Postgres. What if you have certain, super busy tenants whose queueing traffic comes in giant batches at unexpected times? With SQS and their recent fair queues, you not only don't need to worry about the spikes (as long as your writers can write fast enough), but you also don't need to worry about the distribution of in-flight consumer work being imbalanced due to the spikiness of a single tenant
ElasticSearch: * Postgres FTS can work for a number of simple scenarios, but there's a number of edge-cases where performance deteriorates as well. What happens when large documents are normal? https://old.reddit.com/r/PostgreSQL/comments/1q5ts8u/postgre... shows some metrics on what happens when you get into TOAST territory. FTS also puts a decent load on the db both in indexing as well as searching.
MongoDB: * Mongo, for all of the deficiencies that it's had over the years (which I hear are mostly resolved these days), can scale writes in a _muuuuch_ more simple way than Postgres.
The claim is that "unless you're at unbelievable scale" you won't hit it, however I don't think that's true. I've worked on multiple Postgres databases that tapped out due to the amount of work it would take to scale things up further (full tenant sharding by db, multiple shards for some larger tenants, keeping that all going and working at a larger scale).
Every additional piece of logic you add into Postgres complicates the story of how you fix things once it becomes too much. Once you've got a single write that triggers 10 different table writes, with 80 index updates, and you want to scale those writes up, you might hit scenarios where you need to choose what gets migrated out. Or you get smart with materialized views, but those require full refreshes. So you create your own version of incrementally-maintained-views, which is more writes and work.
That all being said, I do think Postgres can work for more concerns than it currently is used for, even if I think the recent glazing is a bit much.
Postgres is great, and having everything in a single transactional workload is extremely convenient and can remove a lot of race conditions and buggy behavior.