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watwuttoday at 8:11 AM1 replyview on HN

That is kind of weird take, because whole my life, people WANTED to be part of initiatives like this and were jealous of people selected for initiatives like that.


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bravetravelertoday at 9:31 AM

Some people sit in front of the classroom because they want, others because they must. Many more choose elsewhere. Reasoning is their own.

I don't find it strange, having routinely tanked my own chances/social credit for initiatives... because, like the parent, I don't want a target on my back. Somebody above thinks I do, though, apparently. Experience isn't conditioned on... that experience, if that makes sense. Unpleasant to say the least.

Where you see jealousy, which is a strange thing to invite, I see fear of missing out/rat-racing. Pass. Plenty of motivators and opportunity without the charade. Or, to put it charitably, noise/competition/advertising.

All to say, the initiatives are usually loaded with expectations, reasonable and not. Tread carefully.

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