I hope people can ask themselves why the goal is "winning" and "winning big", and not making a product that you are proud of. It shouldn't be about VC funding and making money, shouldn't we all be making software to make the world a little bit better? I realize we live in an unfortunate reality surrounded by capitalism, but giving in to that seems shortsighted and dismissive of actual problems.
Some of my projects are built with the goal of making really good software. Some of my projects are built with the goal of making money. I take pride in doing things well, but I don't let my pride get between me and financial freedom.
“Winning” is just the the subjective word I quickly picked. It certainly can be another one, such as the success due to a great product as you mentioned
That is true, but society as a whole does not reward "making software to make the world a little bit better". No one will come and say wow, only you self in the mirror.
I have the same feeling when creating my art-works I suffer through the process of creation and learning. While someone makes money with an ai generated art work.
Sometimes I wonder if it matters at all.