What's the best place to get some cool graphics assets, sound etc when making a love2d or sdl or {yourfavoritetech} game?
For prototyping I usually use Kenney assets (from kenney.nl). Theres lots of assets for many types of games which lets you rapidly prototype and iterate without worrying about making assets first. For sounds you can use BFXR and just play around. Sometimes playing around with sounds can even lead to new feature ideas :)
I've used itch.io before, it's great! I even made a game using some free assets and AI: https://github.com/acatovic/gothicvania-codex-demo
itch.io is good for sprite assets and fonts I find.
Putting as much love into it as you can.
Don't know about "cool" but I always end up going back to opengameart.org
While most of the stuff is one off assets that do not fit together there are also some nice sets by some creators such as Kenney or Emcee Flesher
Also the Liberated Pixel Cup (LPC) stuff is pretty nice.
Mind you I mostly just look for 2D assets.
https://opengameart.org/users/kenney
https://opengameart.org/users/emcee-flesher
https://opengameart.org/content/lpc-collection