Yes, I agree, and my experience is the same - there's just too many folks getting stuck in that mindset and never leaving it. Looking into the history I think software engineering domain has a lot of cargo-cult, which is somewhat surprising given that people who are naturally attracted to this domain are supposed to be critical thinkers. It turns out that this may not be true for most of the time. I know that I was also afoul of that but I learned my lesson.