Yep, it's easier to ask forgiveness than permission. It's far easier to undo the 1% of the time they fuck up in a serious way than it is to manually audit and allow an the routine stuff.
The key is to only give them access to things you're willing to lose.
This is also why giving them any kind of direct write access to production is a bad idea.
Talk about code smell
If you arent manually auditing, you only notice the fuck ups when they’re instantaneous
If you don’t trust it to interact with prod, but still trust it to write code that will run on prod… you’re still trusting it with write access to prod.
The only thing I’m willing to let Claude write for me is a static site generator, because static files without JS aren’t going to do any damage, it either loads or it doesn’t.