What makes it humiliating? To me, it's just words, a little childish but still. I'm a Brit though, and I feel we have a much more lax attitude to swearing over here.
If OP feels "humiliated" reading a silly item from a menu their dominatrix must have the easiest job in the fucking world.
"A little childish"; Bob's your uncle.
If OP feels "humiliated" reading a silly item from a menu their dominatrix must have the easiest job in the fucking world.