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The Soul of a Pedicab Driver

106 pointsby haritha-jtoday at 9:40 AM30 commentsview on HN

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A_Ducktoday at 1:00 PM

What a lovely article. There's a strong correlation between the energy you put out into the world and what you get back.

I often think that as I end up confirming a grumpy/aggressive person's expectation I'll be a bad customer, or confirming a kind/present persons's expectation I'll be a good one

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fwipsytoday at 2:25 PM

I need to learn a similar lesson. My team lead isn't used to being questioned, and when I tried to correct him in a meeting it resulted in a big argument. I realized that I did so partly because I wanted to demonstrate my own knowledge. We were both being egotistical. Certainly he could have handled it better, but I could have avoided the problem entirely by finding a more tactful framing rather than correcting him publicly.

I guess the generalized version is "it's easier to get what you want through compromise and avoiding conflict." Or just, "you catch more flies with honey than vinegar."

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paddy_mtoday at 5:24 PM

Slightly related to the article. I have a personal cargo bike. The most fun that I have with it is giving friends a ride home from a party. People instantly start giggling and laughing. It's goofy, you get stares and people curious

wrathofquantoday at 5:00 PM

So happy to see sheldonbrown.com is still up. So much valuable information there.

gf263today at 1:55 PM

I must be unenlightened because this job would make me quite misanthropic. Even sitting in a doctors waiting room gives me that feeling.

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_-_-__-_-_-today at 12:32 PM

What a great site design. Easy to read, simple layout almost comforting.

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jacquesmtoday at 12:40 PM

That's quite the story. I have a family member that spent some time on a taxi and the stories are much the same. Assholes aplenty.

speeferstoday at 1:59 PM

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fdghrtbrttoday at 11:26 AM

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xnxtoday at 11:37 AM

Quite different than the scam pedicabs that operate in US cities now.

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