alt Hacker NewsI would really like to have kids, but I don’t have my act together. I also feel like my partner is not suitable or capable of properly taking care of our kids. Feels pretty awful and am scared to not have any kids as I grow older. I worked hard to get a good relationship with my partner, and now that we have one I worry kids will only ruin what we have now
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whateveracct • today at 6:31 PM
your world will change in that hospital room the first day or two together with the new person in your family. it really is seismic.
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chzblck • today at 4:07 PM
You'll never feel ready but you will always be ready. One of my biggest regrets is not having kids sooner
dominotw • today at 3:54 PM
just go for it. there is never a really good time to have a kid.
I hope you’re in a position where you can have an honest conversation about it with your partner. I’ve come to realise over time that honest and open communication is the most critical thing in any relationship. I really hope it works out for you both!