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specproctoday at 1:11 PM0 repliesview on HN

I've just moved to a new town, and my social life is kicking.

Found a local computer club, crew of lads tinkering and using open source software. Really nice, smart bunch. I'm learning loads and appreciating their company.

OP found this lacking, because it's not working fast enough and he's not getting enough time with people.

I totally agree putting in time with old friends is always worth it (maybe not through surprise calls) but on a local level, I'd encourage patience.

Things take time, friendship isn't something you can just switch on. It takes years, and that's the point. It's a journey, not a destination.