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pino83yesterday at 2:44 PM1 replyview on HN

You might confirm or not. As far as I observe it, the "deeper connection" is virtually always with other parents. And this is exactly the connection. Without children, it's neither possible nor attractive to be one of these persons.


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alex_suzukiyesterday at 4:29 PM

It’s true for me, and probably for most parents, that connecting with other parents via the shared experience of haing kids is easy: there’s always something to talk about. But I also find that for me, both parties having kids is simply not enough for it to click! I knew my close friends from before I had kids, the connection was already there.

I agree that making new friends across the “kids barrier” is hard. You just live in different worlds.

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