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rimbo789yesterday at 9:49 PM4 repliesview on HN

As a parent of 2 a big reason we won’t have a third is the massive step up in transportation costs. Having to get a third car seat would require us to go from our Kia to a minivan. And then there is the cost of the car seat alone.

Then there is the time cost of wrangling kids in an out of them. My toddler can easily make it 15 minutes to buckle her in just on her own. A third would mean easily 5 minutes of to get everyone buckled in and only if they are cooperative.


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Someone1234yesterday at 9:59 PM

Yep, there is like two brands that specialize in three across.

A lot of new parents haven't yet realized that a carseat is wider than the average adult. Meaning that cramped middle seat isn't getting a third seat without very careful consideration and the right vehicle.

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oleganzayesterday at 9:59 PM

As a father of four (2+2: third one was born after 8 years since the second one), I thought all the trouble in the world would come and go, but what'll stay is us having a second life with kids when older ones get all independent teenagers. And we are not 40 yet.

The transportation costs are annoying, but worth it.

yreadyesterday at 10:30 PM

Daycare is like 3000eur/month for 3+ years. You can probably lease a double decker for that money

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magarnicletoday at 3:24 AM

Really? I fit 3 seats in a Hyundai i30. Not a big or fuel-hungry car.