> Who expects mothers of young kids in the US to be away from the home?

Where in the USA do you live where I can support my wife and kids on one income? We'll move immediately.

Work and wider social participation, and a sprawling suburban geography that has people living far from friends and family.

The alternative - small, crowded population centres where everyone knows everyone and three, even four generations live in the same household can of course be limiting, even suffocating.

But there's a reason why, for all that the 1950s autonomous nuclear family is held up as some kind of ideal by tradwife fetishists, it's also the milieu in which Valium and sleeping pills became popularised.

The economy