I’ve found that just not answering any calls from unknown numbers (and having my phone just silence those calls so I don’t even see them) prevents all of this. If the caller is legitimate (e.g., new dentist office regarding an appointment) they can leave a voicemail. And if it isn’t spam and they aren’t willing to leave a voicemail and have me call the back, it probably wasn’t important in the first place.
Sure, I may be missing out on some opportunities. But the peace of mind is far greater.
This, my pixel marks almost all calls not in my address book as suspected spam or phishing.