If i get your point based on your answers: "intelligence" cannot be divided into categories. If you are intelligent, you can be trained to do whatever skill you want, its just a matter of being taught or exposed to the probelm. So it does not make sense for it to have its own category. So if you train intelligent people to be social, they will be social, its just software.

What i have seen: people can perform outstandingly well on classical intelligence without almost being taught. Think about mathematics or logic. But when you get into social/emotional territory, then it has a bigger correlation with how you were taught or your experienced when you where a small kid (but its not 100% causal). So in that sense its not the same thing.

Now, if you are unconfortable by calling it "intelligence", feel free to call it "skills". For me its the same thing as a football player having spacial awareness of the field. Sure, they have to be trained, but it is some "skill" that some people have an easier time using and improving.

Think of it as social intelligence if the term “emotional” bothers you.

Solitary intelligence, in the wild, is just a different beast from tracking the exponential complexity of a social system. Everything we see—in biology, psychology and artificial intelligence—indicates that while these functions seem to share resources (you can't be an emotionally-intelligent idiot), they are distinct, with folks (and animals) possessing a lot of one and little of the other being observed, and their handicaps resulting from the lacking part being observeable, too,

Why not? I know people who are very good at feeling other people’s emotions but very poor at analyzing them.

In kids you can see it all the time - like a kid started crying because he sees others cry, but if you ask them why they cry - the explanation is always ridiculous.

But even some adults are like that, interpreting your own or even others emotions is both a skill and a talent.

Having met many extremely intelligent people who struggle to understand the emotional state and responses of those around them, hell yeah I think it's a distinct category.

We know that emotional intelligence, in the sense of Machiavellian intelligence, is really just completely normal intelligence.

The only ways that comprehending emotions wouldn't belong in its own category of intelligence would be if everyone were equally capable of deducing the emotional state of others, or that performing such deduction is not something intellectual, or that such deduction is strictly a consequence of existing intellectual categories.

Someone could be extremely proficient in disciplines that are associated with 'raw' intelligence, and yet utterly fail at theory of mind. Anyone that has been in a college campus probably has seen examples e.g, Classmate might click instantly with real analysis but will routinely perplexed about why their girlfriend is mad, or why they are seen as abrasive.

To be clear, in my experience it wasn't even a case of being on the spectrum or other neurodivergence. They simply had a bad model of other people's thoughts and emotions. Of course this isn't DnD, I've met people a order of magnitude smarter than me in the usual academics and with a deeper understanding of people.

You might not like the terminology, but it's a real thing and can be independent from what we usually call intelligence.

you thinking selling doesn't take emotional intelligence?

Consider a computer with a cpu and gpu. The CPU is a general purpose computer. It can do literally anything. Including software rendering. But the GPU is purpose designed for graphics so it will be much more efficient at the job. These days the GPU is also a general purpose computer so it could in theory do anythign the CPU does too, but for many things again it will be less efficient.

It's the same with emotional intelligence. The brain has dedicated circuitry for understanding other people. You can reason it through abstractly but it will be less efficient. You can also solve problems about natural science with the emotional reasoning part of the brain. Ever heard the expression "the atom wants a full shell of electrons"? That's empathy.