It's so funny you say that. Was literally just chatting to my wife the other day about how mediocre weddings are. You spend $20-$50k basically LARPing as landed British gentry, and end up having less fun than the average 21st, Christmas or New Year's. So much more stress in planning too.

Are you otherwise well off? How do you define "big?"

The good thing is you can have a big wedding without going into debt (assuming you’re rich or don’t mind public parks)