Thats what people on one side of the argument like to think, patting themselves on their back for their own decisions. I am old enough to have seen it many many times.

There is no simple win - each person is different, each family is different, where one thrives the other has absolutely miserable time imprisoned with no way out.

world is not black and white and neither are people, dont dumb it down like that since you miss what reality looks like.