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crotetoday at 5:43 AM2 repliesview on HN

If those restrictions are so good for children, wouldn't it be in your interest to enforce them - even when other parents do not?

Or are you worried about your kids getting an unfair advantage over unrestricted ones?


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sleepychutoday at 6:22 AM

I am not parent comment, and I'm also not in favour of restrictions for all/most people in the name of "the kids" for all the reasons covered in this debate. Invasive age verification feels even worse.

But I gotta tell I am not looking forward to deciding which is worse when my little kids grow up and I either have to: - let them use TikTok (or whatever it is by then) and suffer what I know to be an insidious poison - make them be on the outside of the circle and suffer exclusion by their peers because they don't get any of the memes

I've been the only kid in class without the new 18-rated Call of Duty game, or indeed a games console to play it on. At the time, it sucked. In retrospect I totally agree with my parents, young children should not be playing games about shooting each other! (Of course other parents may disagree)

CoD was only the new hotness once every couple of years. TikTok can make something the new hotness every week.

My only real hope to escape this dilemma is that enough other parents in my cohorts realise how poisonous TT is and the problem goes away... I can't say I'm optimistic.

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throwaway290today at 7:57 AM

It's not just you.

Imagine if smoking was allowed and considered cool. You basically must your child never allow to mingle with an average kid. If you are too busy at work, if you are single parent, or need a work trip, 100% you come back and your kid is a smoker.

All because what other families are free to decide and they don't give a fuck.

Do you want that world back? Do you have money to live in a gated house with private school and full time nanny and stuff so you can raise your child separately from the average? Must be nice