That also is my perception, from Brazil. There is even the concept of "cordial man", coined by sociologist Sergio Buarque d Holanda, that is connected to this
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cordial_man
i remember >20 years ago going to the bus station somewhere between RJ and SP, and asking the best way to get to Iguaçu
- it's difficult - ok fine but how - it's difficult - right i'll see that but how - it's difficult
i remember >20 years ago going to the bus station somewhere between RJ and SP, and asking the best way to get to Iguaçu
then it dawned on me this meant get away you fool :D