My impression was that autoupdate was not the default because the devices it runs on only have so many resources, and there's a non-trivial chance of bricking the device (given how many devices are supported)? It's not like other vendors are doing any better in this space (and I've seen enough things in the "IoT/embedded" space brick themselves with updates to be a bit wary of autoupdates).
Auto-update is also a bad idea unless you can make it really secure, which is hard to do on devices so constrained they don't even have a clock to keep track of what day it is to judge whether a certificate is still valid.
Minimizing the chance of bricking the device with an automatic update requires at a minimum having two copies of the OS, so that the running copy isn't trying to modify itself and can remain as a fallback in case of a broken update. That's not too challenging these days now that most routers are using NAND flash, but for a long time it was common to use very small NOR flash modules with the absolute minimum capacity.