> If you can solve the same problem in a simpler way without using k8s

I think I disagree with this, or at least the implication. I think it is true you can solve EACH OF THISE PROBLEMS INDIVIDUALLY in a simpler way than Kubernetes, the fact that you are going to have to solve at least 5-10 of those problems individually makes the sum total more complicated than Kubernetes, not to mention bespoke. The Kubernetes solutions are all designed to work together, and when they fail to work together, you are more likely to find answers when you search for it because everyone is using the same thing.

I think it is fair to say k8s is not a zero cost abstraction, but nothing you use instead is going to be, either, and when you do run into a situation where that abstraction breaks, it will be easier to find a solution for kubernetes than it will for the random 5 solutions you pieced together yourself.