> All modes of cyber security depend on some obscurity (e.g. password)
That's not what the expression means.
"Security through obscurity" has a very specific meaning — that your system's security depends on your adversary not understanding how it works. E.g. understanding RSA is a few wikipedia articles away, and that doesn't compromise its security, so RSA isn't security through obscurity.
Lucketone likely knows this and was pointing out that "obscurity" is a misleading word to use when talking about systems which all rely on obscurity, in the plain English sense of the word.
No, "Security through obscurity" is a valid and useful layer. A lot of weight hangs on your word “depends” though, in which case if it is the only layer then you will eventually have, uh, problems.
I’ve used it for a long long time. Like in 1999 I’d have a knock on certain ports in a certain order to unlock the ssh port.
And lots of weird stuff to stop forum spam. Which could work for weeks or months or even a year.