As I teen I had the hardest time finding the "there" there.

With my unusual nervous system my expectation was "I know if I tried taking an interest in people all hell would break lose" and it would.

I think Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective People [1] covers similar ground and is more complete and more specific.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_7_Habits_of_Highly_Effecti...