Same, I've tried three or four times to make it work, including one attempt that just translated compose.yaml into k8s yaml, and every time I came away thinking, "just use k8s". K8s yaml looks complex, and can start to feel very boilerplate, but attempts to hide the complexity often just lead to something not-flexible-enough because it encodes convention over configuration, and inevitably some project runs into limitations and pretty soon you've just built an abstraction layer that leaks or is equally complex/verbose and now you have to learn something new.

Just use k8s and follow similar patterns is the conclusion I've arrived at personally.