I have friends who are cops.....the amount of shenanigans that happens behind the curtains is insane. It is literally full of high school drama, divorces, sleeping around, just all around poor behavior.
Unfortunately, the same happens in other high stress industries. Nurses are wild too.
This happens everywhere, your office just isn't sharing the gossip with you
I don't give a shit about what cops do on their time off, as long as it's legal. It's what they do in a uniform that matters.
I don’t think “high stress” is the common denominator for that kind of behavior. That just sounds like horny, immature humans - happens in lots of places.