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genxyyesterday at 7:09 PM1 replyview on HN

I like his tactic of talking to everyone individually to be able to tell each person exactly what they want to hear. I now use that one all the time.


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funimpodedyesterday at 7:29 PM

Beware that there exist people who will cut you out of their lives—professional, personal, whatever—completely, likely with no warning, and possibly loudly, publicly, and with-receipts (if they’ve seen this kind of thing before or have thought through what your next steps will be after they cut you out) if they find out you do this.

All it takes is for a few of them to start comparing notes behind your back. Shit goes sideways extremely fast for people pulling this whose victims start talking to each other without them as the intermediary.

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